Hurting because of wrong companion choices pattern!

 A lot of times, people have to really experience some hurts before they really learn how to approach a relationship in a different perspective. They date the same kind of person that generally breaks their heart. The continue to look at the physical being of a person. Don't get me wrong, I am strongly for having someone in your life that you feel is attractive. I just feel that attractive is when a person is beautiful outside and in. He or she can be the prettiest person in the world, but if they have the most absurd ways then they loose physical points to me. Some folks will date a taller man vs a shorter man. The shorter man might be the best thing that has happen to that woman. Some men will date a slimmer woman verses a thicker woman. I know people have preference and nothing is wrong with that. The main thing is look at the whole package  (beauty and heart)! What do you think about it?